princess rules the world

ok so one quick side note, i have on will power and people are far too annoying so i've given up on my grand plan to stop smoking! sad i know! maybe will try again next month!!

So yesterday was Mr O's birthday, and i actually baked, but that's a story for another day. So princess, queen bee of the universe was there yesterday with her new boyfriend- ok so where else would she be, i mean she is 30 and solely dependant on her nursery school teacher mother and retired step father for her survival. So anyway she starts talking religion, which is a touchy subject and one which people tend to be highly opinionated about. Anyway her new boyfriend voiced his opinion and as usual because it wasn't the same as hers she went off like a fire cracker and was screaming at him and then refused to listen to anything he said. no wonder no one wants to be around her! Her opinions are the only correct ones. All hale princess, queen biatch!! Haha i see forty, single, alone, unhappy and still living with her mom supportin

Wise Wozzel

I was reading some of my favorite blogs today and what one of them said (The life of a Wozzel – read his blog, he is really awesome) was so true.

He was saying that the whole relationships are 50/50 is a load of shit. You can’t expect it to be 50/50 otherwise you demanding perfection and no one is perfect and it just leaves so much space for fighting, so there should be no half/half or what is good for one is good for the other . Relationships should be 40/40 and the other 20% is compromise, understanding, communication and learning. So together as a team you make up the other 20%, so he’ll make up that portion when I can’t and I’ll do the same thing for him.

I think that it is the perfect way of seeing it….

Anyway just thought I’d share his wise words.

Valen... what?

So on sunday is that over commercialized thing, valentine's day! Don't get me wrong the fluffy toys are uber cute and the chocolate body paint and fluffy handcuffs are super fun! Its just i'm yet to understand the logic of buying these things now when at another time of year they'd be far cheaper!!

Oh and shouldn't people show the people they love just how much they love them all year round not just once a year? I suppose though it is nice to take a day just for the two of you, life does sometimes get in the way!!

Not that we do valentine's day, the 14th of february is a special day for a different reason, its the day Mr O graced the world with his presence...

So now that i've shared my valentine's day opinions, hope your plans for the day of love go smoothly!!

Day 2 and still going...

so today is the second day of non-smoking!! i'm still holding out, not saying its been easy, would have done anything to have a cigarette in traffic this morning (I think they had a notice up informing all idiots to be on the N1 this morning, and the road works didn't help!) i was even thinkin of bumming a smoke off the woman in the toyota next to me. Dignity won though and i never hang out my window and shouted, "Listen i really need a smoke could i get the one you smoking, please?". Feel alright now though! Will see what the rest of today brings!

Willpower?? What's that???

since i decided almost 3 hours ago to quit smoking all i can think about is a @#%§ing cigarette. WOW this really is going to tough. think being bored cv work is making it more difficult to be honest!

Well three hours down...

New need for willpower

It seems as though the whole world is quitting smoking around me, so I have decided that now is as good a time as any for me to quit also. There are a few things that I think will keep me on the path to quitting:

1. I just had my last cigarette, so there are no distractions (oh and might I mention that I didn’t enjoy it all that much – good sign I think).
2. I am the lone smoker left at work, not nearly as cool as being a lone wolf. I think people are starting to shun me…
3. Weeball is also quitting, well so her blog says (and thus it must be fact). This is helpful as it gives me that “if she can do it maybe I can do it too”
4. I would much prefer it if my car never develops that same smell its predecessor had, and it is becoming increasingly difficult to refrain from smoking in my car.
5. I want to do this whole get health thing, and I think the whole smoking thing is hindering that idea a bit.
6. Mr O doesn’t smoke and every now and then he mutters something along the line of he hates kissing an ashtray, so from this I can only assume means that if I quit I should get more smooches, and I really like smooches!!!!
7. Then there is the whole plan of moving out in may and at the rate I seem to smoke away my money it is becoming increasingly more difficult to afford food let alone rent, so that’s a pretty big incentive to quit.


The only major con that I can think of, aside the usual fear of getting fat due to excessive eating brought on by lack of nicotine, is the well being of the people around me, as I tend to get really grumpy if I don’t get my usual fix (the same sort of thing that happens if I’m not feed). So I’m just hoping in this process of quitting I don’t kill some random person for being just too stupid/annoying/perky/ / / / / /.

Well wish me luck!!!! The need for willpower starts now 

the hustler

the weekend kicked off on friday at the porra's house where the twin's brother was telling us about his "mad" pool skills and after a few drinks and much debate it was decided a pool comp was needed- at R10 a person. As my pool skills are well not exactly skillful i decided to opt out, lol. after the usually taunting by the boys i decided to play!! i proceeded to beat Mr O and the porra, both of whom are pretty skilled Lol... i then won the R120 price... Ducky the hustler, Haha teach them to under estimate the blonde.